

Jorge (34)Ī somewhat recent transplant of Puerto Rico, Jorge shares how he worked at a gay bar just to make cash under the table. I know for a fact I’m not the only taxi-driver doing this. Every so often when I’m hurting for money, I’ve whipped it out for tips. I learned real fast that if you pick up fares late at night in the gay area, a few of the guys will hit on you. I’ve been driving a taxi for the past five years.
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In order to make ends meet, this taxi-cab driver in a major metropolitan city on the east coast talks about how going gay (at least temporarily) happens in his line of work. The extra $300-400 bucks I get a month goes a long way. I just close my eyes and pretend it’s her when I let the dude get me off. I have a girlfriend that likes to do more than just sit inside on weekends. Plus, there’s housing costs and money just to be social. He shares his reasoning for doing occasional male on male hookups. Working at a campus bookstore at a university, Joel is completing his graduate degree in health sciences. I never bend over for anyone but I have been on the other end. A friend of mine told me about ads you can run on Craig’s List. My job doesn't pay enough to cover my expenses. When I do, it’s just to make extra money to pay bills. Byron (22)Įmployed as a mailroom worker for a large Fortune 500 company, Byron shares the struggles of being young, broke and straight. Trying to get women to pay you that amount of money for a ten or fifteen gig is almost impossible. It doesn’t really count because all the other dude is doing is blowing you.
It doesn’t happen often but 3 or 4 times a year, I’ll let another guy blow me for $200.00. Nathan (31)Ī male stripper who mostly does private bachelorette parties dressed as a construction worker, Nathan explains why he goes hooks up with other men a few times a year. I’ve never gotten off in front of another dude. Sometimes I’ll let the guy lick me too but it costs extra. I don’t care if a guy jerks off while he touches my biceps or chest. Charles (25)Ĭharles, a body builder who competes in national shows shares that he sometimes goes goes gay but with specific rules. OK, let’s jump right in! Gay for pay: confessions from 10 straight men 1. Instead, we’ve given them ones to protect their identity.Īll of the men you will read about were found on popular websites, such as Reddit and Craig’s List, under listings for men seeking men.ĭon't forget to take our poll at the end. On the condition of anonymity, MV has agreed not to reveal their names. Now that we have the definition and qualifiers out of the way, what follows are the responses from 10 straight guys who share why they’ve gone gay for the day – with pay! We’ve seen this in numerous studies, including recent research involving men living in rural settings that engage in “bud sex”. Additionally, many people feel labels tend to box them into certain stereotypes. Researchers believe that human sexuality generally runs across a spectrum that is both complicated and diverse.

In other words, people go by what feels most comfortable to them. Such activities can include but are not limited to:īefore we continue, it’s important to state that men who use labels like “straight” as a descriptor do so because that is what they’re comfortable with. When a man who identifies himself as straight engages in some type of sexual activity with another man, it is commonly referred to as gay for pay.
